
Talking About Jesus
You don’t have to agree with me. Join the conversation.
This is not a theology debate site. It is where I share my lived relationship with Jesus—my experiences, failures, questions, changing understanding, and what I am still learning.
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Why I’m Talking About Jesus
A personal welcome from Rick—his own story, not a sermon or an argument.

A personal welcome
I’m Rick. I’m still learning.
I am not here to tell you I have God all figured out, to win an argument, or to fix anybody. I am sharing a real life with Jesus—what I have experienced, where I have failed, what I have questioned, how my understanding has changed, and what I am still learning.
I am learning that truth is meant to become life: love that shows up, living water when we are dry, and the abundant life Jesus talked about. For me, that begins with relationship, not argument—and with learning to love people instead of trying to fix them. I may be wrong about some things. That is okay. The conversation can stay honest.
Rick's lived experience
Learning to Live What I Thought I Knew
At twenty, I thought I knew enough to teach. It took me nearly fifty years to realize how much I still had to learn about love, fear, failure, grace, relationships, judgment, and what it means to actually live what I believed.
I spent much of my life trying to get it right. This is what I discovered when I couldn't. I'm not offering a finished theology. I'm sharing the questions, failures, experiences, and changes that shaped the way I now understand Jesus.
Follow this developing path“I don't want to tell you what to think. I want to tell you what I lived, what I questioned, what I got wrong, and what I think I'm beginning to see. Then you can think about it for yourself.”
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Who Are You
Really, Grandpa?

A life of faith, failure,
family, and grace
Rick Hesse
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Who Are You Really, Grandpa?
My honest story of faith, failure, family, business, questions, and the long journey of learning who I really am.
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“I spent most of my life trying to understand God. In the end, I discovered He was teaching me to know Him.”
— Rick